May 13 - Mothers’ Day - John 14:23-27

    A regular occurrence at the day care is to hear a child crying and yelling “I want my mommy.”  Maybe they fell on the play ground – or they had an altercation with another child.  Some tragedy has occurred – or at least what seems tragic to a three year old – and the only thing that can make things right is mommy.

   Usually the teacher can console them – at least temporarily.  But the arrival of mommy is a time of joy.

   Because if mommy is here, I don’t have to be afraid any more.  Mommy can heal my hurt – and make me better.   Because mommy always loves me.  A mother’s presence bring peace and security.

 

  The Hebrew bible has a word that sums all that up – and more: Shalom. It’s usually translated “peace’ or “wholeness”.  It denotes an inner serenity and a tranquility of the soul.  It is a peace that, the bible says, surpasses human understanding.  And perhaps the best example of Shalom is the feeling a child has in the presence of his or her mother.

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This is the kind of peace – of shalom – that Jesus offers us.

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid.  John 14:27

Peace that the world cannot give – peace of mind and heart.  So don’t be troubled or afraid, Jesus says, for I am with you.

It is a peace that flows from His presence.

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The late Ann Landers received thousands of letters seeking advice each month.  When asked what seemed to be the most common topic, she answered that most people seem to be afraid of something.  They are afraid of losing their health, their job, their family.  Many are even afraid when there is no reason to be afraid.

Do not let your hearts be troubled,

and do not let them be afraid.

The gift of peace is the promise of Christ’s presence amidst trouble – his presence in the form of the Holy Spirit.  He assures us that we don’t have to be fearful because He is with us. We can abide securely in the love of Christ.  In His presence we find shalom, wholeness and well being.

 

 

   As children grow into teenagers and then young adults, they become independent of their mother.  They get a job, then a car, and finally more into an apartment shared with room mates.  I’m free and independent - on my own – and I don’t have to listen to my mother.  Then there is some set-back – things aren’t working out – and guess what happens?  You know.  They come home to mother.  They come home to that sense of security and well being – of peace - Shalom.

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Where ever your mother is, that’s home.

Those who love me will keep my word, and

my Father will love them, and we will

come to them and make our home with them.

14:23

As we keep His word, the Lord will come to us and abide with us - Make His home with us.  We don’t rise up to God, but he comes down to be with us.  And the way in which he comes down to us is His word.  As we prayerfully read and study the Bible, the Lord comes down to us to make His home with us.  At home with the Lord, we can find peace and security.

 

But a warning: when the Lord moves in to make His home with you, he makes some extra keys.  Keys for the Holy Spirit, keys for other disciples, maybe even keys for strangers.

With the Lord, it’s always an open house.

If he is at home with us, he expects us to open our hearts to others – to practice hospitality and generosity.

Shalom also means wholeness, a peace that is not only interior, but includes others in the community of Christ.

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The first lesson tells the story of Lydia, a successful business woman.  In response to Paul’s preaching, Lydia and her household are baptized.  Later she invites Paul and Silas to her home. 

“If you consider me a believer in the Lord,

come and stay at my house.”  Acts 16:15

Receiving God’s peace - the Holy Spirit - prompts hospitality and generosity.  Lydia’s house became a center of worship and outreach - and so Lydia was the mother of the church in Philippi.

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   This week I read a book, Mars Needs Moms.  Actually it was a picture book for children – and even a controversial book.  The premise of the book is that scientists on Mars have been using their telescopes to observe civilization on earth.  They’ve seen good and bad – but what has impressed them the most is a mother’s love for her children.

  Apparently, there are no moms on Mars – and the Martians are envious.  They haven’t experienced anything like the unique love of a mother – a love that is unselfish – giving without asking anything in return – a love that is self giving – sacrificing herself for her child.  This kind of love is wonderful – and they’re missing out.  So Martians are sent to earth to kidnap some moms and take them back to Mars.

   While it’s only a children’s book, its point is certainly true:  there is no love like a mother’s.  The book is controversial – the first publisher turned it down – because it makes a point that may not be suitable for children; a mother’s love is so great that she would even give her life to save her son or daughter.

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It is an unconditional love – based solely on the fact that she gave birth to me – and God loves me simply because he gave me life and I am His child.

Jesus demonstrated His love by giving His life for us – that we might have new life in his name.

It is a steadfast, continuing love.  Just as our mothers are there for us, so the Lord will always be there – we can count on God’s love.

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  A young pastor tells this story.  “I remember a sense of hopelessness when my car was wrecked in an auto accident.  I had just started working in my first church, and didn’t have the money for repairs or a new car.  It was clearly the other driver’s fault, but his insurance company sensed my desperate lack of funds.  So they stalled and ignored me – hoping I’d finally settle for what ever they offered me, even if it wasn’t enough to repair my battered car.  But a lawyer wouldn’t take my case because the amount involved seemed small to them.  There wasn’t enough in it for them.

  “Luckily, a church member was a powerful trial attorney. He offered to phone the insurance company and tell them he was preparing to sue.  After his call, the insurance company called, offering to settle by paying for all the necessary repairs.”

  The pastor concluded: “I had a powerful advocate, without whom I could be mistreated.  But with my advocate, my calls were returned with courtesy, and financial obligations fulfilled.  I discovered the value of an advocate.”

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Jesus uses that word “advocate” to describe the working of the Holy Spirit:  An advocate – one who is at your side, and on your side,

But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything, and remind you of all that I have said to you.

14:26

 

Jesus promises another comforter, the Holy Spirit, who is the one who will be His peace among His followers.  The promised peace and security is the promise of his very own presence.

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A Calvin and Hobbs cartoon began with mother sitting in her favorite chair, sipping her morning coffee.  Then her son Calvin walks in and she’s amazed at how he is dressed.  His head is encased in a space helmet.  A large cape is draped around his shoulders – and dragging on the floor.  One hand is holding a flashlight, the other a baseball bat.

“What’s up today?”

“Nothing so far.”

“So far?”

“You never know, something could happen – and if it does, I’m ready for it.”

“Maybe I need an outfit like that.”

 

You don’t need a helmet and cape. 

Just trust the words of Jesus in today’s gospel and you can say:

Whatever may come my way, I’m going to be ready for it.  Bring it on.

 

Christ has given you a share of his Spirit and his power.  The Holy Spirit, the Advocate, is at your side and on your side.

So Jesus says to you:

Do not be afraid – Don’t let your heart be troubled.  Whatever comes, we can handle it.